The first thing I suggested was to PRIORITIZE your life. For me it wasn't that hard, I already knew what my priorities were. I just needed to see them again. Remind MYSELF of what they were. We get so caught up in just being alive that we sometimes let things get out of hand.
So I sat down and made a list of just what matters to me. Your list may change as things change in your life. The list of a retiree will probably be different than that of a new mom or a mom with small children.
I won't put my whole list up here but an example of my list would be:
- My family - includes husband, children & grandchildren
- Our home
Second on the list was OUR home. No, OUR home is not all my responsibility, but I take great pride in taking care of our home. I am a homebody, I love being here at home, surrounded by the photo's and things that make this house our home. And I like it kept a certain way. That's important to me. So I make a window of time each day available for its upkeep. I'm primarily an early bird so I'm up getting Mr Brown Eyes off to work. While I'm up and he's headed out, I plan dinner, toss in laundry, straighten up, make the bed and I'm done with housework and usually in my office by 8:30. In the summer it might be later because I enjoy weeding and doing gardening when its cooler outside.
Third, fourth and fifth - the genealogy, gardening and reading really are flexible to me. Alot depends on other factors. If its going to be a beautiful day outside I might take my laptop and work on the patio, with breaks from typing to pull some weeds. The only two items on that list that are locked in stone are #1 & #2.
It ALL boils down to PRIORITIES. It really is that simple. So what are your priorities? Have you made your list? What makes your list?